As someone who’s researched menopause, I’ve had hundreds of conversations with women in midlife who come to me with the same question: “What’s happening to my hair—and is it just me?”
It’s not just you. During perimenopause, our bodies enter a period where estrogen and progesterone fluctuate so dramatically that it can feel like your body’s no longer your own. And your hair, believe it or not, is a sensitive barometer of that shift.
Hair is often the first place women notice change, but the last place they expect it. You might be feeling stronger in your career, more grounded in who you are, and yet suddenly, you’re pulling hair from the drain, noticing your part widening, or wondering why your once-thick ponytail feels noticeably thinner. For many women, this becomes not just a cosmetic concern, but an emotional one. Hair is identity. Hair is visibility. Hair is self.
What many don’t realize is that each hair follicle has hormone receptors. These follicles respond to internal changes in stress, sleep, and nutrition, especially during the hormonal rollercoaster of midlife. Estrogen plays a key role in prolonging the growth phase of hair (anagen), while excess DHT (a derivative of testosterone) can cause the shrinkage of follicles. When estrogen levels drop and other hormones surge or fluctuate, hair growth patterns can change. Add cumulative life stress and it’s no wonder so many women are seeing their hair—and their sense of self—shift.